Not All Flags Are Red

I’ve talked about red flags in publishing and I’ll continue to do so because predatory people and companies prey on those who haven’t had the opportunity to learn what they need to in the industry, but it’s also important to know that not all flags we see are red. We have to be vigilant, but […]

How Toxic Positivity Can Ruin Your Writing

What is toxic positivity? Essentially, it’s the belief that negative thoughts about anything should be avoided. Sure, we can look on the bright side, but sometimes things suck, and that emotion deserves to be honoured. But wait, how does that tie in with writing? Here’s a secret that’s not so secret: Sometimes our writing sucks. […]

Finding A Trauma-Informed Editor

You may be familiar with the saying, the first draft of your memoir is for you. It’s often when a lot of the emotions and trauma tied to the topic of your memoir come to the surface and dance with you. After that first draft is done, it’s time to do a round of editing: […]

Dealing With Rejection in Writing

Writers hear the word no a lot. How can we move forward?

You’ve finished your manuscript, you’ve got a query, and now you’re pitching to agents and publishers. You’re so full of hope and excitement. You check your email, and there’s a response! Excitedly, you open it only to read, “thanks, but no thanks.” That “no” is hard to read, but you’re a creative. It’s part of […]

Why Hire a Ghostwriter

Ever thought about hiring a ghostwriter? Here are some FAQs.

Have you ever thought about hiring a ghostwriter? Maybe you’ve convinced yourself it’s inauthentic and that the only way to create your book is to do it yourself. Let’s dispel that myth entirely. Many challenges arise when it comes to writing a book. For example, professional baseball players sometimes need to sub in runners, whether […]

The Books that Changed Me

Books were an inciting incident for my religious deconstruction.

In 2021, I was given the diagnosis of religious trauma. I grew up in a Fellowship Baptist church and went to two different bible colleges. Since the diagnosis, I have begun the healing journey, and as part of that journey, I am writing a memoir. I have thought a lot about my past, and what […]